Rethinking Values to Make the Hard Decisions Easier
All of us face moments when our values appear to be in conflict. But what if there were a way to organize our values that meant we never needed to give up the things that really matter to us?
Reason, Honesty, and Independence: Three Misunderstood Ideas
Most people’s use of these concepts is so imprecise that trying to use them in our lives is like trying to drink a mixture of water and acid.
School Ruins Our Minds. Here’s How We Can Fix the Damage
These five areas of focus have transformed my life, and I hope they can do the same for you and other bright, active minds.
‘Unconditional Love’ Makes a Mockery of Love
How many times have you been told that you should love your parents, spouse, or even complete strangers “unconditionally”?
Can You Treat Love Like a Business Deal?
Healthy relationships are value-for-value exchanges, not one-sided sacrifices.
The Giant Mansion Exercise
Uncover your deepest values with the Giant Mansion Exercise: imagine a life of wealth, free time, and purpose to reveal what truly gives your days meaning.
Virtues: What Are They and Why Do They Matter?
Many philosophies have advocated different conceptions of virtuous behavior. But what is a virtue, and how do we distinguish legitimate virtues from false ones?
Your Mind is Your Castle: Defend It Accordingly
Our mental time-energy is a vital resource for our ability to flourish in life that we should never squander.
How to Spot Bad Self-Help Advice
Tom explains how to spot bad self-help advice and emphasizes the need for grounded, evidence-based strategies to achieve real success.
Cultivating Creativity: What Musk and Franklin Knew
Creativity doesn’t just require risk-taking or industry, it requires a foundation for innovation.
Pseudo Self-Esteem: The Seductive Imposter That Undermines Happiness
Like a scam website, pseudo-self-esteem imitates the real thing but provides none of the actual benefits.
Three Principles for Finding a Job You’ll Love
These three steps can help you find meaningful, fulfilling work by cultivating the habit of living curiously.
